"Every passing minute is another chance to turn it all around." ~Sofia in Vanilla Sky
Sex and sexuality are a part of life but it can be COMPLICATED.
We often hear or experience misinformation, criticism, judgment, shame, hatred, and may experience violence surrounding it. We are told who we should be and what we should do rather than tuning into ourselves to figure out who WE are, what WE want, and then building genuine, deep intimacy with ourselves or others. We are afraid to share ourselves and our desires because we fear rejection and pain.
I love to help people embrace, accept and fall in love with themselves. I am here to help you understand, accept, share, overcome, or improve your sex life whether it's with yourself or others! Let's get you started on a path to more enjoyable and fulfilling lives.
All genders, all orientations, all identities, all desires, all behaviors, and all people are welcome!
Wanting to have more sex? Want to have less sex or no sex? Wanting to expand your sexual repertoire? Let's talk it and see how I can help you move toward your goals.
I am sex positive, work with people across the sexuality spectrum, and help people accept, embrace, and fall in love with themselves. I help people with processing sexuality, coming out, affirmation, and sexual concerns for people of all orientations, identities, and lifestyles.
Sex is a common source of conflict among couples, thruples, and any relationship structure. Desire discrepancies, breaks of trust, infertility, new babies, kids, hustle and bustle of life, aging, and illness in sex drives are all very common hurdles for people in relationships to experience and desire help to navigate and overcome.
Normal, healthy sexuality includes a huge range of desires and behaviors that go far, far beyond the basic binary that people are taught or assume. Sometimes we know what we want but don't know where or how to start. Sometimes we worry about what is "normal" and hold ourselves back. Let's talk about what is going on for you and find your path forward.
Even when we WANT to be having sex, it can still be difficult for many reasons... Low desire? Erectile unpredictability? Avoidance of physical intimacy? Painful sex? Difficulty reaching orgasm? Performance anxiety? Current or past sexual trauma? Let's talk about it and get you started on your path to healing and having more enjoyable and fulfilling sex that is right for you.
Due to the COVID pandemic, all sessions are currently being held virtually via live video feed. I offer telepsychology to residents living in the following states:
AL, AR, AZ, CO, DC, DE, GA, IL, KS (Effective on January 1, 2022), KY, MD, ME, MN, MO, NC, NE, NH, NJ, NV, NY, OH, OK, PA, TN, TX, UT, VA, WV